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Kay Bonikowsky (MDIV Theology) explores the Bible and pastors in Snoqualmie, WA. Find out more at kaybonikowsky.com/explore .

Saying your prayers

It can be simple, really. I find myself perfectly content in a slow train that crawls through green fields stopping at every station. Just because the service is so slow and therefore in most people’s eyes bad, these trains are almost empty—I get through a lot of reading and sometimes say my prayers. A solitary… Read More Saying your prayers

October 21, 2014September 20, 2016 kbonikowskyLeave a comment

Remember Her

Have we remembered her? She is a prophet of God who proclaims by sign act* the future king of Israel. She foretells his impending death by preparing his body for burial. And she establishes her gender as useable by God in momentous times.… Read More Remember Her

October 13, 2014January 10, 2021 kbonikowskyLeave a comment

When spurs leave you bleeding and jumpy…

I guess the early church had given up on each other. I wonder if those spurs had anything to do with it?… Read More When spurs leave you bleeding and jumpy…

September 3, 2014April 18, 2015 kbonikowskyLeave a comment

Hot Diggity Dog! What’s the meat in Ephesians 5:21-33?

Instruction, in ancient writ, often placed the meat in the middle with embellishment on either side for emphasis. Like a sandwich. This literary device is called a chiasm, and it is often overlooked when interpreting Biblical text. … Read More Hot Diggity Dog! What’s the meat in Ephesians 5:21-33?

August 5, 2014September 20, 2016 kbonikowsky6 Comments

Problem Passages: Ephesians 5:23

This post is a part of the series comparing the teaching on various gender passages in the Bible. Read more about the series here. Ephesians 5:23 says, For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. Context This verse… Read More Problem Passages: Ephesians 5:23

July 29, 2014May 2, 2022 kbonikowsky2 Comments

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