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Gems from Numbers 11: Everyone’s a critic.

When craving turns to criticism, it starts to tick people off. Relationships start to blow up. And you might just drown in quail.… Read More Gems from Numbers 11: Everyone’s a critic.

August 19, 2013September 20, 2016 kbonikowsky1 Comment

Gems from Numbers 11: “Let me out of here!”

In my head, his tantrum sounds just like the one I had this morning with my three children.… Read More Gems from Numbers 11: “Let me out of here!”

August 16, 2013September 20, 2016 kbonikowsky4 Comments

The Thin Gray Line

I have said many times that those who believe as Complementarians, often practically live out their marriages as Egalitarians. There are many varieties of marriage in the Complementarian basket. Some follow a strict hierarchy, others practice a more democratic system. Many Comp marriages are a great example of unity and partnership. Even though many Comps believe the… Read More The Thin Gray Line

July 29, 2013September 20, 2016 kbonikowskyLeave a comment

A test of Christian leadership

In 1 Samuel 15, Samuel told King Saul to destroy the worthless Amalekites. Although genocide is generally not a good idea today, the principle revealed in the story is a great test of Christian leadership. Who do your Christian leaders honor? The popular and powerful or the weak, undeserved nobodies? Amalekite History Who were these condemned people? When… Read More A test of Christian leadership

April 3, 2013September 20, 2016 kbonikowsky1 Comment

What if I do something really bad?

Imagine being a 13-year-old girl who raised her 4-year-old sister from birth, lived in 8 foster homes in 5 months, and called 911 after seeing her mom dead (at least she looked dead) from a drug overdose on her living room floor. That is the story I heard this summer from one of the most charming… Read More What if I do something really bad?

August 17, 2012 kbonikowsky7 Comments

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