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A Time to Act or Be Silent?

Moral outrage in the hands of youth is passionate, loud and often inappropriate. But, for Dinah’s brothers Simeon and Levi, the truth was clear. Dinah must be rescued.

“Nobody is going to treat our sister like a whore and get by with it.”
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November 30, 2011November 30, 2011 kbonikowskyLeave a comment

Problem Passages: 1 Corinthians 14:34-36

This post is a part of the series comparing the teaching on various gender passages in the Bible. 1 Corinthians 14:34-4034 Women should remain silent in the churches. They are not allowed to speak, but must be in submission, as the law says. 35 If they want to inquire about something, they should ask their… Read More Problem Passages: 1 Corinthians 14:34-36

October 5, 2011May 2, 2022 kbonikowsky13 Comments

And I quote… “Women should be silent.”

What if Paul was quoting a slogan when he said women should be silent? Not declaring a command for women, but refuting one?… Read More And I quote… “Women should be silent.”

September 26, 2011May 2, 2022 kbonikowsky12 Comments

Be careful what you say

It is so easy to speak harshly of those who believe differently than you. I have entered what Brian McLaren calls the third stage of faith: perplexity. Everyone has an opinion. Who knows what is right? And I’m slowly shifting to the fourth: Harmony/Humility. Love God. Love Others. My thoughts As I begin a new Bible study group this fall studying… Read More Be careful what you say

September 16, 2011May 3, 2022 kbonikowsky4 Comments

Problem Passages: 1 Corinthians 11:3-16 (Part 3: Verse 10)

This post is a part of the series comparing the teaching on various gender passages in the Bible. 1 Corinthians 11:10-12 says, 10It is for this reason that a woman ought to have authority over her own head, because of the angels. 11 Nevertheless, in the Lord woman is not independent of man, nor is… Read More Problem Passages: 1 Corinthians 11:3-16 (Part 3: Verse 10)

September 8, 2011May 2, 2022 kbonikowsky2 Comments

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