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What about the boys?

This post is a bit haphazard, but I hope you’ll stick with it to the end. First, I look at a timely study on the role men play in global gender equality. Then, I explore the Christian gender debate as a tragedy to the name of Christ. And lastly, I tie the two together and… Read More What about the boys?

February 6, 2012September 20, 2016 kbonikowsky24 Comments

Kay Bonikowsky: God Gave Christianity a Blended Feel

… but John Piper wants to divide the sexes and put God on one side. Or more specifically, God is already on one side, and He’s invited men to join Him. John Piper’s recent statements at the Desiring God: Man, Manhood & Ministry Conference sadden and infuriate me. Here’s a taste, if you can stomach it:… Read More Kay Bonikowsky: God Gave Christianity a Blended Feel

February 3, 2012February 3, 2012 kbonikowsky15 Comments

My children are…

Self-centered : They naturally believe their needs and wants should come first. Resilient : They are able to recover quickly from setbacks. (ie: irrepressible) Full of energy : They keep going, and going, and going. They need all these qualities to grow up, which is hard work! These qualities make them: Valuable: They have great importance… Read More My children are…

January 26, 2012January 26, 2012 kbonikowsky1 Comment

Why did good people keep silent about molestation? Maybe they didn’t know any better.

But the fact that sexual abuse was swept under the rug so often makes me wonder if there wasn’t a cultural dynamic at play. Like slavery in the antebellum South, there was a generational group-think that influenced behavior to the detriment of thousands.… Read More Why did good people keep silent about molestation? Maybe they didn’t know any better.

November 21, 2011 kbonikowsky4 Comments

Wordgazer has a Word Home

A regular commenter on my blog (and all around Christian women blogs), Kristen or KRWordgazer, has finally created a home for her wonderful words. Go see! http://krwordgazer.blogspot.com/ From her post today: For too long some Christians have said to others, “We are the ones with the powers and privileges, the spiritual gifts and callings to… Read More Wordgazer has a Word Home

September 30, 2011September 30, 2011 kbonikowsky3 Comments

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